Cruising PART 3

Well, tonight, I will finish up with 5, 7 and 8. These all have to do with getting on and off the ship, and what you can expect to pay for.

Well, when we got ready to check in to board the ship we thought we were doing GREAT by getting there at 1:30pm (you could check in at 1:00pm)..... so we flashed our passports and entered this HUGE holding tank, where they gave us all numbers and told us to wait..... well, WAIT is what we did! We ended up being the LAST group to make it on the ship. WHY? you ask.... well, it seems, groups take longer AND we had not run off the copies of our online boarding passes, so we had to fill out ALL of the forms all over again..... Lesson learned : go on line, fill out your pre-boarding info and MAKE COPIES of the boarding passes. AND show up early and prepare to wait. I think we have talked about the advantage to leaving the night before and driving down and staying at a cheap hotel.... then boarding as early as possible..... I am researching this because I met a couple from Port Canaveral and they said several motels near the docks give you FREE PARKING if you stay one night with them..... it will be worth it in the money you save on parking!

Also, try to bring as few bags as you can. I suggest packing everything into a carry-on. You do NOT have to pay extra money for extra bags, but you will have to check them in and they attendants will bring them to your room, and you are expected to tip them $2-$3 per bag (each way). Also, your room is not very big, so consider the space they will take up. They will have bags delivered sometime on the day you depart, but do NOT guarantee to have them there by dinner (and you cannot wear shorts or jeans to dinner) so wear something appropriate for dinner when you embark... you can pack your swim suit and cover-up in your carry-on.

Now, for the extra $$$ you will pay on-board. That is pretty much up to you. It will be for drinks, gambling, or souvenirs.... other than that, you can keep your money in your pocket. Also, you will want to count on taxi fares etc for when you get to the island.

Now for dis-embarking, you will have to have your bags packed and outside your cabin by 12 midnight the night before, if you have checked bags. (If you have only a carry-on you do not have to do this) Then, they will assign you a number and a place to meet... you wait till they call your number then the WHOLE group leaves at the same time..... this is very time consuming and will take atleast 1-2 hours total. Then you will end up in a warehouse where you find your bags, go thru customs and then exit...... remember there are limits to how much you can bring back into the country, so read up if you are thinking of buying a watch!

Cruising is an AWESOME value and you will leave feeling like a queen!! I look forward to cruising with all of you!

Tip of the day :

on-line check in - https://secure.royalcaribbean.com/beforeyouboard/boardingDocuments.do;jsessionid=0000bYaNnzRQJ1eUJ4wSIZDFCwN:12hdhu6tq

SMART CRUISING - Part 2

Now for part 2 of the Girlfriends Guide to SMART Cruising .......Ok... so here is a re-cap of a few things I will cover over the next blogs that you will need to know/ think about for out cruise : 1. clothing to bring (or NOT bring), 2. How to plan your day, 3. Things you WON'T have in your room, 4. Dinner options and what to expect, 5. going ashore/excursions, 6. participating in the "activities" on board, 7. Things you need to be prepared to PAY FOR, 8. Getting on and off the ship (what to bring and time expectations) and what happens to your bags.

So, I've already touched on 1&3, so today I will hit 2, 4 & 6. All of these deal with your "day" on the ship, which will either really make it or BREAK it, according to how you spend your time on your relatively short vacation.

Time is precious.... and COSTLY! Remember... even though this cruise was SUPER cheap.... you still spent PRECIOUS $$$ for it! Every minute is paid for and you should make the most of it! Now, don't misunderstand me, you don't have to be running from shuffleboard, to climbing wall to casino, to shuffleboard again every minute of the day. BUT, they will put a schedule under your door every night (and it will be in your room on the day you arrive) and it will list ALL available activities and the times they all occur..... this way, you don't have to miss out on ANYTHING! (or you can decide to just relax and miss it all, the choice is yours!) Here is one important piece of advise when traveling with your girlfriends..... remember, it's FUN to do stuff in a group, push yourself to stay connected, even when you feel like you want to just veg out.... do it with someone else! BUT it is also important for all of the girls in your group to understand and respect each others preferences...... (example: I will be spending some time in the casino, Elyse will not, she doesn't gamble, or particularly care for it.... so I won't be pressuring her to join me, but, she may decide to come watch me win my millions for a few minutes, just to show her support) We don't have to all love the same things to have a great time, and usually, if you stretch yourself, you may find you like something you have never thought you'd try.... like rock climbing, or wave surfing, or KARAOKE!!!! Which brings me to my next thought....

Let me tell you, I am not usually a "game player" with a bunch of strangers.... I want to stay in my little circle and hang with my friends.... BUT, on my recent trip to Bermuda my entire family mandated that we all go to these silly contests (trivia night, karaoke, newly wed game, scavanger hunt...etc) WELL, much to my surprise, it was one of the FUNNEST parts of the trip! I STRONGLY suggest getting your "teams" together and showing up for these activities on board.... you will meet new people and have a GREAT time to boot!! (we will try to put out a schedule where Bellehopping is going to compete in these and then get everyone to join in)

Lastly.... dinner. Well, I haven't gotten the details yet from Lois, but I will have all of us on the same dinner and hopefully all at the same tables. (the largest is a 10 top) Expect excellent service and LOTS of food!!! You can order as much off of the menu as you want (my brother-in-law often had 3 entrees at dinner!) The dress for dinner is pretty nice, and I suggest, again, one of those maxi dresses.... they don't get wrinkled and look great! There will be one formal night and we will try to schedule a time for the ENTIRE group to photograph together in the lobby. This also means we will all have the same "show" schedule. REMEMBER... cut loose and have a great time. And brush up on your karaoke and trivia!

CRUISE TIME #1

WELL.... I just got back off of the most WONDERFUL vacation ever! "WHAT could be that great?" I'm sure you're wondering.... well, let me tell you, it will take probably 5 blogs for me to give you all of the great details and check lists, so check back regularly with pen and paper in hand to create your own "to do" list for our "Girlfriend's Cruise" over the Labor Day weekend.

So, you may have guessed from that last line, I went on a cruise! It was a celebration for my in-laws for their 50th wedding anniversary and they paid for all of us (including the kids / cousins) to go (so BIG THANKS to Grammy!!) Here are a few things I will cover over the next blogs that you will need to know/ think about for out cruise : 1. clothing to bring (or NOT bring), 2. How to plan your day, 3. Things you WON'T have in your room, 4. Dinner options and what to expect, 5. going ashore/excursions, 6. participating in the "activities" on board, 7. Things you need to be prepared to PAY FOR, 8. Getting on and off the ship (what to bring and time expectations) and what happens to your bags.

Also, I will be talking to Lois and get her too book all of us at the same dinner seating and show times for the OPTIMAL good time!!

So, here goes 1 & 3 Clothes ETC

So, for this 5 night cruise, I REALLY overpacked! I packed 3 pair of dress pants, 6 nice shirts, 2 half decent cover ups, 1 swim suit, 2 pair of jeans, 3 bras, 6 pair of undies, 4 pair of shoes and OH!! I left my hanging bag at home (in the bathroom floor - another blog) with all of our formal stuff in it, so I borrowed 2 long maxi style dresses from my sis-in-law. ALL OF THIS for 6 days/ 5 night! I am here to tell you, I could have had just as great a time with half of this in a carry-on!

Here are the essential clothing items you NEED(as pictured above)!!! 3 maxi dresses (you know, the kind they sell for 19 $$ at TJ MAXX that are strapless or have thin straps, made out of light cotton or spandex and they could be a cover up or a dress) This is a MUST.... there are NO irons in your room, you can not get them, and you can not bring them, so, bring something that does not wrinkle, but dries fast. WHY?? well, I found, I did not want to keep going up and down the stairs to my room to change for meals.....so, I just put my suit on and thru the cute coverup over it and I was set.... All of the resturants let me in and then I just took it off for the pool. I wore it all day till it was time to go get ready for dinner/ show. My problem was I only had 2, so I had to re-wear it over and over.... so, bring 3 and you are set for every day..... ALSO, You could wear it to dinner too.... my sister - in law wore a really beautiful one for the formal night!! SO, You could bring 4 or 5 and need nothing else! ( I am still bringing my formal gown, though, because it is sooo much fun to dress up!)

Next, shoes...... COMFORT is key! Here is the deal, the ship WILL rock.... you WILL sway, and heels don't really work when you are trying just to stand up straight.... so, FLIP FLOPS! Go to Belk and buy a GREAT pair of Yellow Box flips for around $25 and it will be THE BEST $$ you spend! I would just pick one pair,something neutral, maybe silver sequins or something, so it could be dressy for dinner, and you are SET. (then pack one pair of dress shoes for formal night... but Yellow Box sells higher stacked heels too, so that would be the BEST option for comfort and stability)

Now for the suit... You need 2! I only brought one and that was a mistake.... I always had to put it on wet, every AM... so, bring something you can switch out. Maybe I can talk Lise into doing a blog on " HOW to find the PERFECT bathing suit for you body" with some links to different companies....I'll get on that! But, no matter what you bring, it will fit in.... I saw a little bit of everything (except thongs)

You will still need the required number of undies, but you really only need one bra, if you go with the maxi-dress swim suit combo. And just a side note while we are on this topic, remember your PJ's!! I forgot mine, but my roommate didn't mind :) yours most probably will!!!

Jewelry - for ANGELA - I did bring 3 rings and 2 bracelets, but only wore one set, on formal night. There are safes in all of the cabins, so if you want to bring more, it will be safe... it may just be more stuff to keep up with, and minimalistic thinking is key for this trip! Here is a nice little tip : really nice, expensive jewelry like Movado, Tag, Rolex and Cartier all all sold on the island for around 30% off.... so, if you save your $$, you may want to get a GREAT souvenir for a GREAT deal. ( I will deal with customs in a different blog)

How much Money should I bring??? Well, It is really all dependent on your budget, and what you like to bring home as a souvenir ( I like jewelry!) But, if you are not a gambler, or drinker, you really don't need any money for the ship, except for something at the spa or gift shop.... everything else is ALREADY paid.... (Also, remember, this is a cashless ship, so they will not except anything to pay for drinks, etc, except your room key. You can load this key with $$ if you want and you can go on line with your confirmation # and prepay for colas, H2o and wine.... we did the cola thing for the kids and it was WAY cheaper!! Def a MUST if you are addicted to diet coke!) Then on the island, you will have to pay for taxi/ ferry to the beach or Atlantis or where ever, so at least $20 for that (but you can split the fare). Now I love to gamble (we won $310 playing craps and blackjack on this trip!) and I will hopefully be able to set up a "class" in the casino when we get there for anyone wanting to learn... But I usually set a limit that I am willing to "lose" and when it's gone, it's gone. My limit is usually $25 a day..... but you know yours, so plan accordingly.

Now, the MOST important item to pack, is YOUR PASSPORT..... DO NOT FORGET IT!!! Also, make a couple of copies of your inside picture page and a couple of copies of your driver's license and give one set to your roommate and you carry a copy.... then put the real things in your safe in the room and ONLY take it out when you are going ashore, or home. We thought we had almost lost my daughter's passport and that would have RUINED the trip!

If I missed something, please comment on the blog and let's get a dialogue going!!!

"Jetsetting on the Cheap" advise for the day : Shop for your maxi dresses ON LINE at Amazon.com and Overstock.com you will look VERY hip and current for half the $$. If you aren't into shopping online, go to Loehman's on North Druid Hills Rd in ATL and I bought my satin Calvin Klein black formal there for $25 on sale! And here is the link to buy the Yellow Box on line at Belks... they are having a 70% off sale NOW... so hurry!!!! BELKS (just click here)

Everyone is a Belle this time!!!

Sex and The City 2 premieres this Thursday, May 27th! It is true I am a HUGE fan of the show and the first movie so I am of course VERY excited about the second movie coming out! I can't wait to go see the movie and celebrate the girls! While the movie is already being reviewed as wonderful I have to honestly say that it is only part of the reason I can not wait for the release. The other reason is that we have created a Belle event centered around it!!!

Now you may wonder why??? Why would a travel group decide to celebrate a movie release? Are we all HUGE fans? Not at all! Do we all secretly identify with Carrie, Charlotte, Samantha, or Miranda? Probably but we wouldn't necessarily admit to it ;) Are we all dying to wear a fabulous pair of stilettos? I for one am not!!! Then what is the draw?

SATC2 is about celebrating women and their relationships with each other...and this movie centers around an amazing girl trip!!! Do you see the picture? It is the Belle motto after all -- great women, great times and a great trip!!! When we had our last outing I was going on and on about the movie ( did I mention I am a fan:) and as always with the Belles as fabulous idea occurred! LET'S THROW A PARTY!!!! We have been wanting to do a one day Belle trip lately after all!!!

So the idea was born and the planning began! As with any other Belle trip Shannon took to the fb page and put the idea and word out (even before all Belles were on board -- ha,ha )! Although this isn't an away trip the planning has been the same ... details go to Leslie .... style goes to Lise .... reservations go to Elyse (we are pulling her kicking a screaming this time but as always she is a good sport) ... and celebrity coverage to Angela of course! We started talking to friends and a major event that will revival the official New York premiere is underway!

Eight sponsors later we have an amazing location, gifts for the guests that would thrill any celeb and will definitely pamper our gals, a fabulous themed buffet of appetizers and a drink list that will leave everyone talking ;), and a look that will have us feeling like we were on the movie set!!! Remember -- the champagne taste of the Belles!!! We have pulled of an amazing feat and can't wait for our friends to join us!

So, this Friday, May 28th at 7pm join us at HighWire Lounge on Clayton St. in Athens. The backroom is the VIP lounge and THE PLACE TO BE!!! Come dressed as Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte, Miranda, Big, Aidan or just YOU!!! Come party with the Belles and enjoy what we enjoy -- time to celebrate who we are, why we are worth it, and what wonderful friends we have that love us no matter what! Everyone is a Belle this time and we can't wait to see you!

FRIENDS

What a whirlwind few months. I am making time to blog and grateful to the rest of the belles who have continued to keep the blog running. We have bought a house and are selling our house (no bites yet) all the while still homeschooling, training, working, getting kids to all kinds of practices, keeping the house clean, making dinner,keeping my husband happy and MOVING! Just another day.....I have to remind myself how blessed I am in love,home, family and friends. I had a conversation with my sister the other day ( she and her family are finally moving back home after being gone for over 1o years!) about having the belles as friends. My sister was venting about a supposed friend who talks about her behind her back. She had gone on a weekend girl trip and said they had a blast! Now that they are home the snide remarks come out. At first I was thinking that I really don't have one true friend, and then I stopped and said "I have the Belles". I am now 37 and know that even though the belles don't see each other every day or even talk every day, the friendship and commitment we have formed is strong. We are 5 strong, beautiful women who have realized the importance of women friends. Who else is there that understands how much we do with kids, homes, and families? Other women. So I am publicly saying thank you to my Belles for loving me and caring about me while I have been swamped with everyday life. I want women everywhere to have the same. It takes time and commitment but aren't all good things worth it?

What to "carry-on" when you can only bring a "carry-on"!!

And they said it couldn't be done!! Well guess what??? I, the Queen of Packing WAY too much did it!! Did what you might ask?? I achieved something that I literally have stressed about for 8 months! I packed for 4 days in nothing but a carry-on suitcase.
That's right...you heard correctly...EVERYTHING!! Toiletries, travel rollers for my massive hair, shoes and outfits...and let us not forget the ever important ACCESSORIES!!! I even packed the cute red hat I purchased in Park City, Utah at Mary Janes. Might I say it looked pretty fab the morning I wore it to meet Lady Liberty!
Last week I traveled to the big city...NEW YORK CITY...with my son's 8th grade gifted class. About 45 of us went...including students, two teachers and moms and dads as chaperones. This trip had been in the works since these kiddos were 7th graders and we have been planning and paying for it all year long. Finally the week arrived for our big journey. We flew out of Atlanta last Tuesday morning at nine. Nothing like going through security with a bunch of teenagers...but it all went off without a single problem.
In the planning process, we were told that to avoid extra charges as well as the headache of checking in baggage, that we could only bring a carry on. NO checked baggage. Well, as my Belles know, this chick has a little bit of a problem when it comes to the packing department. I never quite know how I will FEEL on a certain day so I like to pack options in the outfits department. Thus lies the stressful issue at hand for me...how to pack, what to pack and knowing that whatever I pack its a one a day choice...no options!!
Since I knew we would be doing lots of walking, shoes for the first time in my LIFE, were not a deal breaker. I wore sneakers the entire time...shameless plug here...Reebok Easytones ROCK! Seriously, if you are wanting an athletic shoe that works your legs AND looks good these are an awesome choice! I LOVE THEM!! I brought one other pair to wear...fashionable grey ones for one other option...and that is it! You heard it folks...two pairs of shoes! I won't even go into detail how hard it was for me to not wear heels in the city of fashion. I mean WWCT??? What would Carrie think?? (I am sure you know who I am talking about here and can I say EVERYWHERE around NYC there are billboards, sides of buses and signs promoting the new movie. One of my most favorite shows ever and I cannot wait until the movie comes out!)
Now onto the clothes...I knew it would be on the chilly side so I wore layers. Those yummy wraps that you see in all the stores are absolutely perfect for such a thing. I adore Ann Taylor Loft and I found some cute things there for the trip. Everything was lightweight, didn't wrinkle and easy to pack. Add some cute jewelry and even with the sneakers, the outfits looked cute if I do say so myself.
When it came to the toiletries I went with the bare minimum. And since you all know how I love my aerosal hairspray, I was able to pack a 2 ounce can and it worked just fine. Plus one of those days I wore a hat...no spray needed! I even was able to pack my make-up and I refuse to not go without that!!
Before my trip I did go to TJ Maxx...I LOVE that store...and bought a really cute and chic leopard print carry-on suitcase that met airplane regulations. It was perfect and as soon as everyone saw it they all had to say they totally knew who that suitcase belonged to! Hmmmm...I wonder why???
I am really proud of myself for being able to get it all in a carry-on. I know that this is so easy for so many of my friends out there, but it is a big deal to me. Added bonus...being able to get off the plane and just go! No need to wait around at baggage claim and I loved not having to spend a dime to take my stuff on my trip!
One last thought, New York City was amazing! I so loved experiencing it with my oldest child. This was his last big middle school moment before heading to highschool in the fall (sniff, sniff!). We created so many wonderful memories, our days were crammed full from sun-up to late at night and we saw and did EVERYTHING! Even got to see "The Lion King" on Broadway which was spectacular!! I will have to post another blog just to talk about all the fabulous things we did and saw. Just remember, if this Belle can pack it all in one bag, so can you! It can be done and just think about the money you will save not checking in your luggage. More money for you to shop and have fun!!

What's A Belle to Do?

I have to admit that I LOVE hanging out with the belles! That has to be obvious right? Anyway, since we are five different women with five different lives it takes a LOT of work to get us together. That usually means that we can't do a "belle" event on the whim. So what do you do when something great is going on and you want to attend and the belles aren't all available? You grab a friend and go!

The purpose of us deciding to be a travel group was to encourage each other to try new things, take on challenges, and develop strong friendships that will stand the test of time. As a belle we never want to discourage each other because we can't all get together and share the adventure. We also realize that while we are GREAT friends we aren't our ONLY friends!

This past weekend the chance to see Lady Antebellum and Tim McGraw in concert was too tempting! I grabbed a four pack of tickets from Ticketmaster and called a "girls night out!" Shannon was the belle available and I talked my sister and her friend Sara into joining us! We had a blast! Who can resist a girls night out that starts at noon???

Shannon and I headed up to Atlanta and hit one of my favorite spots: Vintage Village on Scenic Highway in Snellville. Love to rummage through little haunts that haven't figured that they could raise the prices about 3x's and they still would be offering bargains! I did mention I was with Shannon right? So, next stop of course -- TJMaxx! New shoes, new dress and a surprise for Angela all in about 30 minutes! On to my sis' to pick up the rest of the group and off to see the show!

We arrived in time to tailgate -- girl style of course. We dined on edamame salad, sushi, western salsa, hummus and london broil. We each enjoyed our favorite beverage of choice and enjoyed the scenery.

The concert was amazing! Lady Antebellum hold a special place in the heart of any Augusta girl like me. Tim McGraw was AWESOME as usual! Did I mention that he provides eye candy for no extra charge?

As great as everything was I realized that the experience of sharing time with friends and family was what I loved most! The belles have inspired me! Before becoming a belle I would have only thought about taking the day for myself. I have become empowered to celebrate the things I love. I have become challenged to make time for myself and my friends so that my relationships of all kinds remain solid. Finally, I have become aware that I am important and worth the expense (big or in this case little) and that I am worth it!

Lise recently did a girls weekend to Savannah with some of her friends and I realized that she too came back a different person. Angela just returned from New York with her son -- a dream come true! The belles may not be together all the time but we work hard at living vicariously through each other and encouraging each other to GO FOR IT!!!

Thanks girls!!! (oh, don't forget -- Next weekend Belle trip ;)